Colleen Smiley - Therapeutic Coach

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Your Child Deserves to Feel Confident, Capable, and Connected

And you deserve support that actually helps—not just another appointment on your overwhelmed schedule.

Your Child Deserves to Feel Confident, Capable, and Connected

And you deserve support that actually helps—not just another appointment on your overwhelmed schedule.

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You're Watching Your Child Struggle—And It's Breaking Your Heart

Maybe it's the meltdowns that come out of nowhere. The anxiety that makes simple tasks feel impossible. The social struggles that leave them feeling left out and alone.

Maybe they're dealing with ADHD and every day feels like a battle—homework takes hours, routines fall apart, and you're both exhausted.

Maybe they're on the autism spectrum and you're constantly advocating, explaining, trying to help them navigate a world that doesn't always understand them.

Or maybe they just need someone—someone patient, someone who gets it, someone who can help them build the skills they need to feel capable and confident.

You've tried so hard. You've read the books, followed the advice, gone to the appointments. But you're tired. And your child is still struggling.

What you need isn't another diagnosis or another strategy you have to implement yourself.

What you need is someone who will actually work with your child, in your home, in the community, in real life, to help them build skills, gain confidence, and feel like they belong.

 

I'm Colleen, and I'm Here to Help

I know what it's like to watch a child struggle and wonder if you're doing enough. I know the guilt, the exhaustion, the constant worry about whether they'll be okay.

And I know that with the right support, kids can surprise us in the best possible ways.

For over 10 years, I've worked with children and youth who need a little (or a lot of) extra support. As a Therapeutic Coach at InnerWorks, I work one-on-one with kids and teens—not in an office, but in their real lives: at home, in the community, wherever they need me.

I help kids develop:

  • Life skills they need for daily independence (cooking, hygiene, organization, time management)

  • Social skills so they can make friends and feel confident in groups

  • Executive functioning to manage homework, routines, and responsibilities

  • Emotional regulation so meltdowns become less frequent and less intense

  • Confidence to try new things and believe in themselves

I'm not here to fix your child. I'm here to help them discover what they're already capable of—and build the skills to show the world.

 

How I Work

I meet kids where they are—in every sense.

I don't expect your child to sit still in an office and talk about their feelings for an hour. That's not how kids learn, and it's definitely not how they build real-world skills.

Instead, I work with your child:

  • In your home – practicing cooking, hygiene, morning routines, homework systems

  • In the community – navigating the bus, ordering food, grocery shopping, going to appointments

  • In social settings – building confidence to join activities, practice conversations, make connections

My approach is:

Strengths-Based I focus on what your child CAN do, not just what they struggle with. We build on their interests and abilities.

Practical and Hands-On We don't just talk about skills—we practice them. Over and over, in real situations, until they stick.

Collaborative I work closely with you (and your child's school, therapist, or other supports) to make sure we're all working toward the same goals.

Patient and Flexible Every child learns differently. I adapt my approach to what works for YOUR child—not what a textbook says should work.

Judgment-Free There's no "should" here. No shame. No pressure to be someone your child isn't. Just support, encouragement, and belief in what they're capable of.

Here's How We'll Work Together

1. We'll Start Where Your Child Is—Not Where They "Should" Be

In our first session, I'll meet your child where they are—literally and figuratively. We'll talk about what's hard, what they enjoy, what they want to get better at. No judgment. No pressure. Just connection.

You'll be part of this conversation too, because you know your child best.

2. We'll Build Skills in Real Life, Not Just Talk About Them

I don't sit in an office and give advice. I work with your child in the places where they actually need skills:

  • At home, learning to cook a meal or manage their morning routine

  • In the community, practicing how to order at a restaurant or navigate the bus

  • In social settings, building confidence to join a group or start a conversation

Skills stick when they're practiced in real situations—not just talked about in theory.

3. You'll See Progress That Actually Matters

You'll see your child gaining independence. Managing their emotions better. Trying new things. Making progress on goals that matter to your family.

And I'll be checking in with you regularly—because this works best when we're all on the same page.

Imagine This

Your child wakes up and gets themselves ready for school—without you having to nag or remind them ten times.

They come home from school and tell you about a conversation they had with a friend. A real friend. Someone who gets them.

Homework gets done without a three-hour battle. Routines happen. Meltdowns are less frequent, less intense.

Your child looks at you and says, "I can do this."

And they mean it. Because they've practiced. Because they've built skills. Because someone believed in them and showed them how.

You finally get to breathe. Not because everything is perfect, but because your child is growing, learning, and building the life skills they'll need to thrive.

That's where we're headed.

 

Your Child Might Be Dealing With...

ADHD

  • Can't focus long enough to finish homework

  • Constantly losing things, forgetting responsibilities

  • Struggles to manage time or follow routines

  • Needs help with organization and executive functioning

Autism Spectrum

  • Social situations feel confusing or overwhelming

  • Routines are important but hard to maintain

  • Sensory sensitivities make daily life challenging

  • Needs support navigating a world that doesn't always make sense

Social Struggles

  • Has trouble making or keeping friends

  • Feels left out, lonely, or misunderstood

  • Doesn't know how to start conversations or join groups

  • Needs practice with real-world social situations

Life Skills Gaps

Can't manage basic hygiene, cooking, or household tasks independently

Struggles with time management and organization

Needs help preparing for adulthood and independence

Would benefit from one-on-one skill coaching in daily routines

Emotional Regulation Challenges

Meltdowns are frequent and intense

Struggles to calm down once upset

Has trouble identifying or expressing feelings

Needs tools and strategies to manage big emotions

Transition to Adulthood

Needs help preparing for independence, work, or post-secondary education

Struggling to build the confidence and skills needed for adult life

Would benefit from mentorship and practical support

If any of this sounds like your child, we should talk!

Your Child Can't Keep Waiting

Every week that goes by without support is another week your child struggles—and another week you carry the weight of trying to help them on your own.

Without support:

  • Social struggles get worse as other kids move on without them

  • Life skills gaps widen as peers become more independent

  • Confidence erodes with every failed attempt or meltdown

  • The transition to adulthood becomes harder and scarier

You're doing everything you can. But you can't do this alone.

Your child deserves someone who understands their challenges, believes in their potential, and has the time and expertise to help them build real skills.

That's what I do. And I'd love to help your family.

From Struggling to Thriving

Where your child is now: Overwhelmed, struggling, isolated, dependent, frustrated, losing confidence

Where we're going: Capable, confident, connected, independent, managing challenges, believing in themselves

This isn't about turning your child into someone they're not. It's about helping them become the best version of who they already are—with the skills, confidence, and support to navigate their world successfully.

Your child is capable of more than you might think. Let me help you see it.

 

Coaching Sessions & Logistics

Session Structure:

  • One-on-one coaching tailored to your child's needs

  • Sessions typically 2-3 hours (skill-building takes time!)

  • Can be scheduled weekly, bi-weekly, or as needed

Where We Meet:

  • Your home

  • Community locations (library, grocery store, mall, etc.)

  • Anywhere your child needs to build skills

Cost:

  • London, ON: $180 for 3-hour session

  • Additional hours: $60/hour

  • Monthly supervision fee: $125 (covers clinical oversight and individualized treatment planning)

Funding Options:

  • Passport funding

  • OAP (Ontario Autism Program)

  • SSAH (Special Services at Home)

  • Private pay

How to Get Started:

  1. Reach out to InnerWorks

  2. We'll talk about your child's needs and goals

  3. We'll schedule an initial session to meet your child and create a plan

  4. We'll start building skills right away

  • Great question! I'm a Therapeutic Coach, not a therapist. Here's the difference:

    Therapeutic Coaching (what I do) focuses on:

    • Building practical, real-world skills

    • Hands-on support in daily life (home, community, social settings)

    • Life skills, social skills, executive functioning

    • Action-oriented, skill-building work

    Therapy (provided by our licensed therapists) focuses on:

    • Processing emotions, trauma, and deeper psychological work

    • Clinical diagnoses and treatment plans

    • Talk-based sessions in an office setting

    • Services that can be billed to insurance

    Both are valuable—they just serve different needs. Many families work with both: a therapist for emotional processing and a coach for practical skill-building. Our team can help you figure out what's right for your child.

  • That depends on your child's goals and needs. Some families work with me for a few months to build specific skills (like cooking or taking the bus independently). Others work with me long-term for ongoing support through transitions or complex challenges.

    We'll check in regularly about progress and adjust as needed. You're always in control of how long coaching continues.

  • I get it—lots of kids feel that way at first, especially if they've had negative experiences with adults trying to "fix" them.

    I don't come in trying to fix your child. I come in curious, patient, and focused on what THEY care about. We start with their interests and build from there. Most kids warm up once they realize I'm not there to judge or lecture—I'm there to help them do things they actually want to do.

  • I work primarily with children and teens (roughly ages 8-18), though I'm flexible depending on the child's needs and developmental stage. If you're not sure if your child is a good fit, reach out and we'll talk through it together.

 

Your Child Deserves This

You've been trying so hard—advocating, researching, managing appointments, implementing strategies. You're doing everything you can.

But you don't have to do this alone.

Your child deserves someone who will show up consistently, believe in them, and help them build the skills they need to thrive.

That's what I do. And I'd be honored to work with your family.